I spose I’ll go see if I should be studying now.
i dedicate this mixed girl monday to myself, lmao.
dis be mi body ~
And it’s not perfect.
But the only person that can talk to me about my body and be relevant is me.
I don’t live to please others, I live to please myself. When I’m happy, my world will go ‘round. Haters gon’ hate regardless of if you’re 10 pounds, 100 pounds, or 1000 pounds.
People will always find a way to get you down, if you let them.
Love yourself first because all that other shit is just extra. Don’t rely on anyone to make you happy with who you are other than yourself. Fuck what society thinks; confidence develops from what you think and believe about yourself. And as long as you believe it, people can say the worst shit about you and it won’t matter because you know better than them who you are/what you are.
Edited: Comparing the comparison! Zebra = most recent.
And, to build off of what I said before:
Don’t aim for an image that will make society pleased with you; aim for an image that makes you pleased with you. When you are pleased with yourself… when you learn how to love yourself… it makes it a lot easier for others to love you. Not because you’re undeserving of their love before then, but because we have a tendency to reject/question the love we receive when we can’t even manage to love ourselves.
If you want to see a change in your appearance, take healthy steps to get there… and that goes for any aspect of your being. If you are unhappy with the way you act or the way you think, take the proper steps to change those things. You have all of the power when it comes to how you feel about yourself, but only if you take control.